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Hnnn I need to get this off of my chest?? Okay so I liked this girl for a while, but it was weird and I didn't know what to do about it because I hadn't really gotten a crush before because im a little bit... we'll say emotionally reserved. anyway. so I didn't even know if this chick liked girls but i decided that i could befriend her anyway because i was sitting beside her in one of my classes. So i did and I made it very extra clear how blatantly gay I was and I asked her her sexuality and she said she was straight. SO I was like, cool, whatever. But then she started, like, hinting at the possibility of her not being straight and, like doing that weird light flirty touch thing when you want to hint at a crush I still thought she was kinda hot so that confused me. So I go to my best friend and tell her about it and she's like, I got this. and grills this girl only to come up with, yes she is in fact straight. So I drop it. Just kinda throw the crush out the window. But then I find out that when asking about her straightness, my best friend was like "Oh yeah, I was just asking because (i) kinda like you" you wanna know how I found out? Mrs crush lady confessing she also liked me. Yeah. Oops. Because now I had already dismissed it and no. longer. feel. anything. But wait, theres more! Turns out, before meeting me, crush lady thought she was straight. Then I come along and suddenly she's questioning her sexuality. Fucking oops. But me being a complete dumbass, I figure you cant really just thow a crush away and I still like her. So I accept. And we start dating. Fast forward 4 months and i break up with her, expressing my lack of feelings. and then we dont talk again afterwards. So! To sum that whole fucking mess up: I accidentally turne a girl gay and then led her on for 4 months and now i feel really bad about it but also i dont because I dont feel anything for her and the happiness of others isnt worth fucking up my own mental health. So yeah.