I am temporarily back I don’t know for how long mostly because well I already told you the situation I’m in and it’s not getting better however, I am going to try to finish what I couldn’t finish before. I think I’d bit off more than I could choose last time. I have not been back here in at least two years possibly three and I’m working this out on my phone, which isn’t easy to begin with, but at least right now voice to text is working well which is more than I can say for my hands and the rest of me as well. I am going to put up something new. There’s a lot of things about being gay or buy out there, but I doubt there is anything for those of us who are a sexual or what that experience is like or has been like hard as it is to believe there was a time when you had to choose a box You were either gay or straight, then came by as a sort of first. It went from fringe then it was you know one of the boxes you could choose and transsexual will that was also considered a fringe. It wasn’t considered mainstream, but it was there, but if you were asexual, there wasn’t a word And you had to choose. You were either gay or straight. The others were not even on the list at the time now that is the beginning of what I intend to write what that experience was like and how if you were asexual you were forced to pick one of those boxes on the list and what you were was not on the list… Call what I’m going to be writing a history and a better understanding of what the term means and yes, I know there are so many different varieties. It might as well be Baskin-Robbins or even Ben & Jerry’s for the amount of different types. There are.