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also, I made a horrible decision lmao. So I've been stretching my ears I decided "fuck it" and went up a size like five days after going up a size and ripping my ear a bit (stretching didn't rip it, I just messed up while putting in my tunnels)
So far it doesn't look like I damaged anything but my ears feel like they've been through a meat grinder that was on fire lol