THE RELATIONSHIP IN FIFTY SHADES OF GREY IS TOXIC❗❗❗❗❗ the girl has told Christian that she is not into BDSM, yet Christian still forces her to do it. When she uses the safe word he makes her feel guilty and punishes her after words. He is also extremely controlling, he tells her then to eat, what to wear, who to talk to, ect. Also when he finds out she is planning to visit her mother and doesn't tell him, he full on BEATS her, she has told him to stop multiple times, and that she doesn't enjoy pain. Yet she still stays with him because she likes the non sexual part of him and that is wrong. There are many other reasons, ❗❗❗if you feel uncomfortable with anything and you tell your parents to stop and you don't like it, and make you feel bad about it, they don't care about, it's abusive, fifty shades of grey makes it seem like it's okay, it's not, same thing with after, if your in a relationship remotely similar LEAVE THE RELATIONSHIP ❗❗❗