This is my personal preference.
I feel uncomfortable with the you play my crush I play yours, please dont bring any of it up unless you are wanting to do a crossover which the only, only time I will play your husbando/waifu, if you ask me nicely.
And I'll most likely say yes, but when you're outright saying "heyyy if you dont do this for me I won't for you" like is an obligation lmao