PushpitaSayma

@pathak_kshama And Thank you so much once again for all the things and all the valuable informations, suggestions and advice. Thank you so much❤️❤️ 

@pathak_kshama aur agar nahi to kabhi wapas ane ka maan ho to install kar lena phirse. I wish you all the best things in your life and may / wish your all the dreams comes true❤️Wish you a very happy and healthy life. God bless you, take care❤️❤️Love you, lots of love❤️❤️❤️

@pathak_kshama Aapko good bye nahi bolungi, bol sakta. But ha jo baat bolne wali thi wo  ye hi hai jo dusre readers ne bhi bola ki agar kabhi maan kare to phirse likhne ka tha wo aajana plz. Hesitate ya kuch soch na maat. Aur agar aapko lage ki irregular way mein hi sahi kabhi week mein ya month pe ek ya do baar story likh sakte ho to likhne ka sochna. Hum readers ko kuch bhi chalega.We are ok with anything. Aur touch mein rehne ka agar possible ho to wo bhi karna, sochna once in a time hi sahi. Agar lage ki baat karna hai readers se, humse baat karne ka maan ho, yaad aaye to aajana kabhi kabhi. I know aapne koi expectations rakhne se mana kiya hai. But expectations / hope/ wish koi dil mein to rakh sakta hai na. Aur uninstall wali jo baat hai wo ye hai ki agar uninstall ki jaga log out karke break lena possible ho,sochne ka scope ho to wo sochke dekhna

@PushpitaSayma aur na hi mai koi fancy shampoo ya oil use karti hu. Oil me nariyal ya phir sarso . Aur shampoo me Sunsilk ya pantene.. 

@pathak_kshama Fancy to mein koi bhi product use nahi karta chahe wo sampoo bolo, hair oil ya phir face wash. Aur mera to make up ka bhi koi jyada saman hai nahi kyuki mujhe make up ka, sazne sawarne ka koi aesa sokh hai nahi. Mera bhi coconut oil use karna hota hai. Kuch time pehle wo 7 hair oil hota hai na wo use kiya tha uske finish hone ke baad wapas kharidna hua nahi. Abhi samajh mein nahi aarah hai ki wapas se kharidu ki nahi. Aur sampoo ka to mera pantene, sunsilk aur dove ye teen ke beech chalta rehta hai. Jyada to pantene use kiya hai abhi kuch time se dove ya suslik karna hota hai. Apko es bareme pata hai kya ki agar home made oil matlab ke coconut oil ke sath mein dusra ingredients mix karke jo oil banana hota hai uske long time use karne ke baad hi kaam karta hai kya? Kyuki mene use karne ke baad jab kuch khas effect nahi hua to meri mummy bol rahi thi ki esko long time/ kai months tak use karne ke baad hi kaam hota hai. Mene jab use kiya tha us time start ke kuch time to thoda hair fall kaam hua tha but wapas se badh gaya oil use karne ke baad bhi. To..

@PushpitaSayma maine kabhi use nahi kiya per methi dana ko oil me dalkar chhod do aur usko hi lagao . Baaki jab dandruff/lice ho jata tha toh mummy kapur aur laung ka tel nariyal ke tel me milakar lagaya karti thi bachpan me 

@PushpitaSayma year waste ho jata hai eska toh jyada mat socho . Mera toh 2013 se 2017 ka time pura waste hi hua , kahin bhi selection nahi hua jagah mai chahti thi aur phir ekdum alag hi direction pakad li jiske baare me socha bhi nahi tha. Mera motive tha ki mujhe paise kamane hai koi specific field se hi kamana hai aisa koi irada nahi tha isiliye mujhe jo mila after 4 years of constant rejection maine join kar liya . Us waqt mere mind me bahut saari problems chal rahi thi aur mera kaam karna bahut jaruri tha dusro se pehle khud ko proof karne ke liye ki mai kisi per burden nahi hu. 
            
            Dekho agar tumhara motive paise kamana hai , es baat se koi farak nahi padta ki kisi ek specific field me hi kaam karna hai toh sabse pehle kuch skills seekh lo jo almost her jagah kaam aaye . Jaise ki MS-office , coding bhi seekh sakti ho , AI ke bahut se courses hai jo ki koi bhi kar sakta hai usse related bhi job opportunities hai. Aur tumhara koi bada sibling hai jo job kar raha ho , usse bhi guidance le sakti ho. 

@pathak_kshama Same Author ji. Mera bhi apke jaisa same situation, thinking hai. Mera koi aesa specific filed mein hi kaam karna hai aesa nahi. Mera main hai ki mujhe kaam karna hai, kuch karna hai life mein, independent hu, kisi ke upar fully depend na karu, burden nahi banna. Apne cheze khud kar saku/ karu. To mene kisi bhi tarah ke kaam/ job kar sakti hu, karna hai seway teaching ka jo ki mene apko bola hai. Kuch skills to mujhe sikhana hai.Mujhe computer course to karna hai matlab mera eccha hai karne ka. Aur ekdum basic se hi karne ka soch rahi thi. Basic ka to mujhe aata tha but bohot time ho gaya mujhe computer / laptop pe, computer / laptop ka kaam karte huye. Mera study related, dusra koi kaam ho toh jyadatar phone se hi ho jata tha/ hai to uska use bohot time se hua nahi to ekdum start se hi start karne ka soch rahi hu. Aur Apne jo sibling ki baat boli na jo job karta ho mera elder sister hai jo job karti thi abhi nahi kar rahi hai uska 4 years ka beta hai usko abhi time dene ke liye job se quit kar diya tha jab wo 6/ 7 month ka tha. Thoda aur bada ho jaye to baad mein karega, karne ki try karega aesa socha hai. Baby hone ke baad bhi job karti thi but baad mein baby ke liye aur esliye bhi quit kiya ki aane jane mein hectic ho jata tha aur salary bhi kaam thi kharcha jyada ho raha tha esliye bhi. Aur wo bhi teacher ka hi job karti thi

@PushpitaSayma ok toh phir sabse pehle new skills seekhna shuru karo . Aur chaho toh koi part time job bhi try kar sakti ho . Logo ke sath communicate karna bhi jaruri hai kyuki usse bhi bahut kuch naya seekhne ko ,jaan-ne ko milta hai .

@pathak_kshama mera point / question ye hai ki agar mein apne field ka related job karna ho preparation lena ho to kese lena chaiye aur dusre filed ka karna ho to kese preparation lena chaiye. Like bohot log apne education field/ background se different job karte na aur apka bhi to aesa hai to aese mein kya karna chaiye. Aap ye keh lo ki dusre filed/ background ka karna priority type hai/ jyada pasand hai. To kya karu/ karna chaiye kese start karna hai..Apne kese kiya tha? Agar thoda experience/ koi incident / scene share kardo to. If you want to share. Apne kya job coaching kiya tha ya khud kiya karte the?  Khudse ghar pe padhte the? I know/ understand ki ye jo karega uske upar depend karta hai but agar thoda batado ki kya karna chaiye/ kya kar sakte hai ya bol lo ki konsa pehle start karke dekh sakte hai toh..Agar job coaching karna hai to konsa karna sahi/ easy rehta hai/ ho sakta hai like physically present hoke karne ya online course karna   

@pathak_kshama But mujhe na teaching job nahi karna hai. Aur uska reason bhi hai. Ek to ye ki mein bohot introvert hu apko pata hai mene bola tha, mera communication skill bohot kharap hai, socialising mujhse hota hai nai try karti hu jyada na ho thoda hu but hota nahi hai..Like bolte hai na ki should do this least but wo bhi mein kar nahi pati bohot mushkil lagta hai, and you know na ki i am bad at explaining things mene ye mention kiya tha aapko to ye ek baat hai aur teaching profession / job mein bohot patience bhi rakhna padhta hai jo ki i feel mujhse hoga nahi esliye mein ye nahi karna chati. Otherwise ye to bohot accha option hai. Mera aesa thinking hai ki botany related agar koi job ho to apart from teaching wo kar sakte hai but jese ki mene bola eska scope option bohot kaam hai nahi ho dusra job kar sakta hai. Mujhe job karne ka eccha hai ye main hai aesa koi specific, criteria hai nahi hai ye hi karna hai. Govt job ho, corporate ho, NGO job ho koi bhi usse i am ok. Agar botany se karna hai to bohot kaam job hai. Mein dusre field ka / dusre field bhi karna chati hu. 

@pathak_kshama Mene last year August ke time apse job,  career related kuch baatein ki thi na to usi topic mein mujhe thodi aur baate karni hai, kuch aur cheeze janni hai, suggestion, advice, guidelines chaiye mujhe. Last jab es topic pe baat hui tha tab aapne bola tha ki mere field related agar koi job hai wo dekhne ka aur mere sath walo ko bhi puchne ka ki wo log kya option dekh rahe hai..To mera botany field ke na bohot jyada kuch option nahi hai. Specific / jyada scope/ chances ki baat bolu to wo teaching profession ka hai aur mere sath walo ke kuch logo ko mene pucha tha ki wo log kya soch rahe hai. Kuch ne bola ki gov job priority hai ab govt job to her kisika hi priority / eccha hoti hai na!! Bola govt job ya koi aur job bhi kar sakte hai but majority ka teaching ka bola hai like primary assistant teacher ho ya school, college koi bhi ho aur BCS mein try karne ka socha hai..BCS matlab India mein jese UPSC hota hai na wese

@PushpitaSayma haan mai walk toh almost roj karti hu . Maine yoga & walk se loose kiya tha weight . 

@pathak_kshama Aap ye sab khud se karti ho/ kiya tha  i mean kitna chalna hai kitna time tak walk karna hai aur jo yoga exercise hai wo khud thik/ decide kiya tha ya ye bola gaya tha ki ye ye karna hai?

@PushpitaSayma maine bachpan me hi I mean 12-13 saal me yoga seekha tha & ek time per mai logo ko seekhaya bhi karti thi . Aur brisk walk karte hai like 40-45 mins... I prefer morning walk kyuki sham ka aksar miss hi ho jata hai kisi na kisi reason se , morning walk me regularity bani rehti hai .

@pathak_kshama Thank you Author ji❤️❤️