@Sueszi That's fine. And I understand that you're busy and all, (everyone is, including me) but I would like to mark that story off as completed sometime soon. :)
To answer your question: If you said, 'Oh, she should be with this guy!' and I hated him, then yeah, it would be kind of limiting to me as an author, and I probably wouldn't do it. But at the same time that I want to put my own spin on it, I also want to fulfill the actual request that YOU made.
I just feel like you should get to contribute, even if I don't end up doing the character you want.