Remembering the time my friend was confused on how I'm lesbian because I read and write gay men and I "simp" over a male character. First off, he's fictional. Second, just because I read and write gay men doesn't make me not a lesbian. With that logic because I read and write gay men I'm suddenly a gay man. What does make me lesbian is the 2 girlfriends I've had and the 3 girls I've kissed before. Never once did that with a male.