MS.REALISM

@smurkdeptt exactly as crazy as it be over here people be having insane life situation and stories we need to get a series or a movie out here.

exactly like north cali is so underrated for books

@REALISMSTORYTELLER omgomgyesyeysyyeysyeysyeyyseysyye

@wockstain I completely understand where you're coming from. It’s as if you have a unique ability to articulate the thoughts that swirl around in my mind. Respect has been a cornerstone of my life, and I firmly believe that if someone is unable to honor my boundaries, then there isn't any point in trying to preserve that relationship. I truly desire a profound understanding with everyone in my life, yet I often feel cornered during certain discussions, especially when I’m trying to stand my ground with family members. 
            
            In my family, we naturally have an inclination towards argumentation and debate, which can complicate matters. You’re correct in saying that it takes time for them to adjust to perspectives that are outside of their norm. I pride myself on being a calm and peaceful individual, but when I sense that I'm not being heard, it triggers a different side of me that I don't like to reveal. This reaction is something I genuinely wish to avoid. 
            
            Hence, I believe it's crucial to establish a solid framework and foundation for setting boundaries within our family dynamics. It brings me comfort to know that there are like-minded individuals on this platform who share similar experiences and insights.

Also, my apologies for the super long reply. I get carried away sometimes!

@REALISMSTORYTELLER You’ve got such a beautiful intention here: to improve your connections and make them more fulfilling for everyone involved. That desire alone speaks volumes about the kind of person you are—someone who values love and respect deeply. Just remember that healthy relationships start with how we treat ourselves, so never feel guilty for protecting your energy. When we set boundaries, we’re not pushing people away—we’re creating a framework for mutual respect and understanding, and that’s one of the kindest things you can do for both yourself and the other person. I know it can feel daunting, especially because family dynamics are so layered and emotional, but when you approach the conversation, try to focus on “I” statements—like “I feel exhausted when…” or “I need…”—so it doesn’t feel like an attack but rather an honest expression of your feelings. That way, they can hopefully hear you without becoming defensive. As for maintaining boundaries over time, it can be tough, especially with people who are used to things being a certain way, but stand firm in your decision. Remind yourself why you’re doing this: because healthy relationships require balance, and you deserve that as much as anyone else does. Over time, they’ll either adjust or show you where their limits lie too—and either way, you’ll have clarity.