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Guys, I need some help.
I have a gf, whom I love dearly, but I feel like we just don't.. click? Anymore?? If that makes sense??? I love her with everything I have, but I feel like she sometimes doesn't return the feelings back. But don't get me wrong, she does! We both have lives, I'm busy, she's busy, but like.. idk..
But then I have this friend, whom I also love dearly. We talk every day(when gf and I only talk a few days a week) and we're honest, always there for each other, etc. But I really, really, really am conflicted on this person cuz I think I like them, cuz I've been having feelings for them for awhile now, but they have a bf and they deeply love someone else so it may just be a one-sided thing, but like. Idk what to do. Fuck, I feel more of a connection with my friend than with my actual gf. Friend actually listens to me more than my gf does, if that says anything.
I just wanna know what y'all say cuz I really need some help rn. I just don't really feel a connection anymore w/ gf. And it's not a constant thing! It's an off and on thing. Idk if it's my depression or moodswings or what.