Holidays are difficult for many—myself included.
Loneliness, loss, addiction, family, politics… all of it tends to escalate this time of year.
It’s supposed to be a season of happiness and joy, but for many that isn’t the reality—and lately it can feel like the world is pressing in from all sides, especially with how interconnected we all are.
But connection is still the key.
If you need it, reach out. Don’t be afraid to express how you’re feeling. Don’t hide it and let it build until it explodes.
Reach out—to a friend, a counselor, a family member you trust. Anyone who can offer comfort, care, or support when you need it most.
And if you don’t have anyone, you can reach out to me. I’m no good at saying the right things, but I am a good listener.
(Just don’t hold it against me if your emotions wind up in one of my characters someday )
But seriously—don’t let the holidays drag you down. Don’t let the weight of the world settle on your shoulders alone.
You are loved.
And now that that’s out there—
To those having a wonderful year, to those who always feel loved and appreciated, and to everyone else too:
Happy Holidays.