@Ren12319 Most people have issues seeing themselves as others see them. They either can't see their own shortfalls or blow them way out of proportion. It's why we have coaches, counselors, and mentors in life, to get some input from a third party that is more neutral on what we're doing well and what we can improve on. My experience is those types of people often view themselves as compassionate while not realizing how they are coming across, and usually get defensive if anyone calls them on it which makes it even harder to address.