Hey guys,
I am writing to provide an update. I am doing much better overall. My ex-girlfriend is still attempting to stalk me. She gained access to my two primary email accounts. So far, she has been unable to hack into any other social media accounts. I have ignored most of her attempts. I have reported her actions to the police. They advised me to seek a restraining order. I work forty hours a week, Monday through Friday. This makes it difficult to find the time to do so. I am safe and have not been harmed.
I also need to address an incident that occurred in December 2024.
In December 2024, I visited San Bernardino, California. On my first night, I smoked marijuana. I told my ex-girlfriend and her boyfriend that I did not consent to any touching or sexual activity. I felt vulnerable at the time while high.
After I fell asleep from the high, her boyfriend got between us. He began to grope me and suck on my chest while I was still half asleep. This was not the first time. It also happened another night before I left San Bernardino for my home state of Missouri. I had to take a Greyhound bus to Springfield.
The second time, he did the same thing. My ex-girlfriend watched. He said he wanted to "play" with me, but I refused. I turned around because my leg hurt. He tried to touch me from behind and groped my breasts. I told him to stop, and he did.
People ask why I stayed in a relationship despite past consent. I now speak out because I feared sharing my story. I was sexually assaulted twice. My ex-girlfriend stalked and harassed me. She threatened to call me a liar. I worried no one would believe my experiences.
yeah... I had to take a mental break from here after what happened but i'm still doing ok and mentally recovering from it.
signing off
K.T Briggs