A big piece of advice to all those reading,
NEVER LOWER YOUR STANDARDS FOR SOMEONE NOT WORTH IT AND ESPECIALLY YOUR FAMILY STANDARDS FOR SOMEONE WEAK AND COWARDLY. IF SOMEONE CAN'T TAKE A STAND FOR THERESELF THEY WON'T TAKE ONE FOR YOU.
I made the mistake of lowering my standards for someone weak and cowardly, what a waste of time and emotions it had been. Learned a great lesson so I wanted to share it with you all.
I have a lot to say about what I learned but this was the biggest lesson I learned hence wanted to share.