I know that all breakups hurt, but I realize that if the guy is a good guy it hurts even more.
It could make you think that something may be wrong with you that even a good guy doesn't want you, but the truth is either it's not the time or he's just not the one for you.
My boyfriend broke up with me on Friday and I know it's stupid, but it was one of the nicest breakups I ever had, although that doesn't make things better. After he broke things off, he was there holding me while I was crying and he was there to clean my tears away (although that didn't help because I kept crying even more). He was there for me.
He's a good friend, but there are things that we both need to learn over time about relationships. I won't hold a grudge against him because I know him and I know he still cares about me even if it's as friends.
I love this quote that I heard from a movie;
"We are often wronged in love. Often wounded, often unlucky. But we love! And from the edge of one's grave, one turns to look back over the past and one says, "I often suffered. On occasion I was wrong. But I loved!""
I believe that God does everything for a reason and in time we will understand.