Hi, so, it's been a while, and a lot has happened.
TW for SA and toxic friends
Hi, my name is Roni Joan, I am a writer for fun. I wish this was a fun and carefree update, but it's not. In January 26th of this year, I broke up a friendship with a sexually abusive and manipulative man.
I don't want anyone to get triggered, so I won't go into the nitty gritty, but basically, this guy many times ignored my boundaries, put me in really awkward situations, and said things that genuinely got me uncomfortable.
I don't want anyone to ever go through what I did, I am barely coping through all of this. And I just want everyone to know that I will never doubt when someone tells me they were SA'd. Because yes, if someone does anything like what this guy did to me, know that is SA. Yes, if you're non-femme it counts, if your SA'er is a non-man it counts, if they never touched you it counts. You're not crazy.
I hope I can update stories here soon. Love you all, stay safe.