@Rosey_Always_Writes
this happens in my family all the time. When I spend time with them, I can sometimes say a few rude words in their direction. but after that they start discussing me and say:
Mom: "they say, it's all because of the phone.
"Father : "Yes, you're right."
Mom : "we need to take her phone away."
and that's how to spend time with them after this, when they say all sorts of different nasty things.
That's what I mean...Because of this, I never spend time with them..