A teacup looks really fragile, doesn’t it? But it’s actually stronger than it appears. How long do you think it took for it to become like this? Turned upside down, stepped on, cut over and over again, and it needs to withstand 1300 degrees of heat.
And that’s not the end. When you go through all of that, and it still isn't right, you must completely give it up. You must smash it. In order to become strong, and to find out who you truly are, there will be a process you must overcome.