Look, this may not be the right time to give advice—but as a stranger, what else can we really do? You’re expecting love from others and getting hurt… but have you ever loved yourself? The kind of love you’re waiting for someone else to give you—have you ever given that to yourself?
Have you ever asked yourself: “Okay, I’m hurting—but what exactly is hurting me, and why?” Instead of expecting others to understand you, love you, and trust you—have you ever felt all of that for yourself?
Healing doesn’t happen in a single day, but we can’t forget that the first step of healing is deciding that now I want to heal. That now, I will give myself everything I deserve. So instead of seeing this situation as trauma, try to see it as a lesson—or even better, think about this: maybe that thing, that person, that situation, or that path was so wrong for you that even after asking God for it so many times, He still didn’t give it to you.
I don’t know how long it will take you to heal, but I do know this—what feels impossible, painful, and traumatic today will one day feel like a blessing when you’ve healed. When nothing makes sense, ask God to show you the way—He does show the way, we just have to become capable of seeing it.
I know it’s easy to say all this, but not easy to do. But tell me, is anything in life really easy? Nothing comes for free—we have to pay a price for everything. So trust yourself, trust God, and do all of this for your future self—because she will be so beautiful and strong that all of this will feel worth it.
May God give you strength and guide your path.❤️
