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My dad took away my phone and laptop.  I'm like on my dad's old phone.  All I could think about for the last 2 days was like reading Webtoons and ffs T.T

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I saw someone say that the standard for women is too unrealistic while i agree with that, they said it because y/n in the story they commented under was crying.  I feel like saying that someone is weak for crying, comes from the idea that "men shouldn't cry, crying is for the weak", weak refering to women, I feel that THIS is an unrealistic expectation.  It's unrealistic for you to call someone "weak" because they are showing emotions.  If you think someone is weak for showing their emotions or if you shame others for showing them because you don't show them yourself, you probably have some deeply rooted issues.  I used to think this way too because my parents taught me it was weak to cry and they would always threatened me when i cried, so whenever i did cry or couldn't hold in my cries, it caused me to think something was wrong with me or that i was actually weak, this caused a lot of problems in my mental health. 

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I felt like i wanted to share this because i feel like it makes different animes and stories sadder, but sayonara is like what you say when you dont expect to see someone like ever again.  Ja ne if you might see them again so its like a till next time.  And Mata ne is like a see you later like you plan on or expect to see them again.  So when Ash in Banana Fish said Sayonara, he really meant it.  I just broke my heart more ahahhhaahahahahahha