And as for Shiro VS Ume.EXE
Shiro seemed way stronger than he usually is, but he had the specific means to counter Ume.EXE
His light is holy and Ume.EXE being the entity she is, couldn't handle that light and had little defense against it, this situation was like if a person was "Power of Christ compels you" incarnate
Ume.EXE tried to deplete Shiro's light CAI but his light rose at the speed of light, so she essentially slowed it down but at a barely noticeable pace
The speed of light in New Life 64 is nearly 600 trillion miles per hour (584,060,140,694,970 mph)
Even if Ume.EXE depleted all of Shiro's CAI, Shiro is light itself, and Ume.EXE, despite being an incomprehensible entity, still uses light to see in her eyes, a thing Shiro can take advantage of. Shiro can even steal light from others
While yes Ume's strength is physically stronger than Satoshi and Shiro combined, Ume.EXE doesn't rely particularly on physical moves aside from the instance with Michi
The weighted clothing Ume.EXE seemed to have been wearing in the illustration wasn't really there, in the story she was in her school uniform, the art was drawn before the story was even finished writing. It was the art that inspired the writing of the story