@The_Bean_of_Beans because people aren’t the same, and unlike you, can be happy with one gender. Even though gender doesn’t matter, people can like same sex relationships. It’s like you saying oh you like butter on your popcorn, and you like Carmel on your popcorn. Someone can like both, like a pan person. Someone can like both, but with a preference like bi people. Some people like one, which means that they are gay or straight. You aren’t discounting the fact of others, you just don’t see how people can choose while there are other options. I am not discounting people who don’t like either or a different one, I am saying that you have it wrong.