SerenitySVA

I KNOW IT’S ONLY BEEN A SHORT TIME BUT QUESTIONS FOR  PEOPLE WHO CAME OUT TO FAMILY.
          	
          	When did you first start thinking about coming out to your family and why?
          	
          	When you did come out, what did you say to them? Like how did you explain your (pronouns/gender/sexuality/orientations) to them?
          	
          	What were their reactions?
          	
          	Are you still on a positive or negative note with them?
          	
          	What do you consider is a good time to come out and why?
          	
          	And lastly, how do you remain calm under talking to someone while coming out?
          	
          	Because CONTEXT:
          	
          	I’m planning on going a trip to my sister’s place in UF and staying there for a week or so. I’m planning on coming out to her about everything, pronouns, orientations, everything so she knows what’s going on with me ya know?
          	
          	You can always dm me if you prefer that or message here, I just want some help is all, thank you everyone for reading this. :)

SerenitySVA

@Zora_fireheart
          	  OMG thank you for the advice! I’ll be sure to keep it all in mind for when it happens, I honestly can’t wait to be out!
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Zora_fireheart

@SerenitySVA  so i don't know exaclly when i realised i was bi but i came out to my parents a year ago just on a whim (bi here) and then they told me it wasn't like likeing your best friend. Which i mean kind of obvous. And then my father said that based on how i was rased i sould be straight (my parents are not bifobic or anything). Then it was just akward silance and i went back to waching something on my tablet.
          	  
          	  I make lgbtq+ jokes around my father and they make him laugh (not in a bad way, you know he gets the jokes).
          	  So i think i cleard it up with my dad but i'm not talking about anything lgbtq+ near my mom, because i feel like she didn't take me serously.
          	  
          	  So conclusion be as derect as posible without being offensive. Feels better when you can be open with someone so close to you. You can do multiple people at onece (my brother heard me as wel) or one at a time.
          	  I'm still on a positive note with them.
          	  You can come out when you're ready (if your sister is a snich and your perents are homofobic or anything, come out when you have somewere to stay like your apartment or when they are not in a position to potencionaly ruin your life). 
          	  I recomend to come out with a joke to test the waters and then just saying it (like a bandaide).
          	  You can remain calm if you know you have nothing to lose but a lot to gain or if you have suport (your friends/other family) or if you do it in a way that will be entertaining to you and it will overpower the fear/nervesnes.
          	  And good luck!
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SerenitySVA

OMG I didn’t see your message, I’m sorry! But thank you for taking your time to reply and help me, I really appreciate your help sis!
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SerenitySVA

I KNOW IT’S ONLY BEEN A SHORT TIME BUT QUESTIONS FOR  PEOPLE WHO CAME OUT TO FAMILY.
          
          When did you first start thinking about coming out to your family and why?
          
          When you did come out, what did you say to them? Like how did you explain your (pronouns/gender/sexuality/orientations) to them?
          
          What were their reactions?
          
          Are you still on a positive or negative note with them?
          
          What do you consider is a good time to come out and why?
          
          And lastly, how do you remain calm under talking to someone while coming out?
          
          Because CONTEXT:
          
          I’m planning on going a trip to my sister’s place in UF and staying there for a week or so. I’m planning on coming out to her about everything, pronouns, orientations, everything so she knows what’s going on with me ya know?
          
          You can always dm me if you prefer that or message here, I just want some help is all, thank you everyone for reading this. :)

SerenitySVA

@Zora_fireheart
            OMG thank you for the advice! I’ll be sure to keep it all in mind for when it happens, I honestly can’t wait to be out!
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Zora_fireheart

@SerenitySVA  so i don't know exaclly when i realised i was bi but i came out to my parents a year ago just on a whim (bi here) and then they told me it wasn't like likeing your best friend. Which i mean kind of obvous. And then my father said that based on how i was rased i sould be straight (my parents are not bifobic or anything). Then it was just akward silance and i went back to waching something on my tablet.
            
            I make lgbtq+ jokes around my father and they make him laugh (not in a bad way, you know he gets the jokes).
            So i think i cleard it up with my dad but i'm not talking about anything lgbtq+ near my mom, because i feel like she didn't take me serously.
            
            So conclusion be as derect as posible without being offensive. Feels better when you can be open with someone so close to you. You can do multiple people at onece (my brother heard me as wel) or one at a time.
            I'm still on a positive note with them.
            You can come out when you're ready (if your sister is a snich and your perents are homofobic or anything, come out when you have somewere to stay like your apartment or when they are not in a position to potencionaly ruin your life). 
            I recomend to come out with a joke to test the waters and then just saying it (like a bandaide).
            You can remain calm if you know you have nothing to lose but a lot to gain or if you have suport (your friends/other family) or if you do it in a way that will be entertaining to you and it will overpower the fear/nervesnes.
            And good luck!
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SerenitySVA

OMG I didn’t see your message, I’m sorry! But thank you for taking your time to reply and help me, I really appreciate your help sis!
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SerenitySVA

I’m gonna make a separate announcement in case y’all may or may not have seen my previous one.
          
          I’m asking for people who follow in the said fandoms:
          
          Obey Me
          Twisted Wonderland
          Percy Jackson
          Hetalia
          
          For all of you followers, if there’s a request/ask that you have in mind, please go to my tumblr (https://serenitysva.tumblr.com/) for more info and there, I’ll continue my writing from here on out!

SerenitySVA

Oh it’s fine, you don’t have to, but I’m grateful either ways :)
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Krazykat179

@SerenitySVA  I would follow you but I don't have a Tumblr.
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SerenitySVA

I see, thanks for the follow sis! :3
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SerenitySVA

I know it’s been a long time, especially with my earlier absences, but I think it’s only right to say this.
          
          I may or may not be leaving Wattpad, it honestly depends on whether I have the mental and emotional capacity to stay/write in here. I’ve just can’t stand to be here anymore after everything I’ve posted, before I removed them. BUT know that I’ll still be here for a while before actually deciding to permanently leave (IF, I don’t know when exactly I’ll decide).
          
          On that note, I wanted to announce that I made a Tumblr account and right now, am trying to set it up so I can actually start back up with writing.
          
          With that, I’m calling out to everyone who mainly follows:
          Obey Me
          Twisted Wonderland
          Percy Jackson
          Hetalia
          
          And I want to ask, do you wanna request something from me? If so, please dm me saying so and I’ll tell you when I have my tumblr properly set up so then you can actually request/ask me there instead.
          
          I’ll be setting it up soon, so for y’all here, I’m currently taking up to 15 requests per month (it may decrease or increase depending on timing and factors otherwise), so it’s best to dm me sooner rather than later.
          
          And please please PLEASE do actually send in some requests in my tumblr later, I actually have the creativity and mindset to start back up with writing again!! (SCREW U DEPRESSION-) 
          
          With all said and done, I hope everyone has a good night! (Over here at least, it’s freaking 2:16 am LMAO)
          

Krazykat179

@SerenitySVA That is good to hear.
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SerenitySVA

@iLikeCHEESE22345
            @softmochalatte
            @Macaroooooooooooons
            @Krazykat179
            AW THANK YOU EVERYONE, I APPRECIATE IT SO MUCH
            
            And I understand the need to take care of myself, don’t worry, I’ve actually been way better in the summer, that’s why I’ve decided to start up writing! So I can start improving and using it while I have free time on my hands in summer!
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iLikeCHEESE22345

@SerenitySVA Remember mental health is just as important as physical health. If you need to spend time on yourself then go do it. You should do what makes you happy. If that means continuing to write then so be it. We all care about you and hope that you take care of yourself because you deserve nothing but the best in life.
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SerenitySVA

Hey everyone! It’s been quite a while since I’ve last been on Wattpad, well more like with interacting wise. As some of you may have noticed, I have left comments and votes on stories when I said I left social media for good or so I thought. 
          
          I believe you all deserve the truth of the matter. Any more personal details, you would have to be a discord friend in order for me to really explain in detail about private matters like this. (We could also pm on Wattpad, but I prefer discord.)
          
          So long story short, I had to go to the hospital for an emergency and stayed there for a week until a day before Christmas. And over the few weeks, my dad passed away on the 27th of January, and I’ve been kinda coping on my own. So :/
          
          Lately around the 15-17th of February, I kinda wanted to get active on social media again simply because I’ve missed you all. (Btw, I’m so sorry for all my friends in discord and irl for having to worry about me, I didn’t mean for the commotion I caused.) Anyways, I’m baaaacccccckkkkkkk 
          
          :DDDDDDDDD

SerenitySVA

Aww, thank you so much for your kind words Eve! And I’d be happy to message with you at anytime either for fun or rants, I really do love talking to you! Talk to you soon dear sis! 
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_Ebeeie_

I am really sorry for everything that happened, I wish you best along with you're family.
            I am glad to see you back though,
            If you ever need to rant or talk to anyone I am all ears, I know we didn't message a lot but I liked to change that, only if you want to as well,
            
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SerenitySVA

Thank you so much for the support everyone! Really, I’m so happy to be back!
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SerenitySVA

I’m sorry for disappointing everyone who followed me, loved me, and cared about me irl and on Wattpad. This is my goodbye to social media. Hello new life, thank you for all of the wonderful experiences.

Krazykat179

@SerenitySVA We'll miss you, but all wish you a wonderful life.
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IPeedOnMyDog

@SerenitySVA goodbye, I didnt read your books that often but I'm sure I'll miss you. I hope your life gets better.
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Historybuff1313

@SerenitySVA I hope the best for you! Adios!
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SerenitySVA

I’ve screwed up even worse. Like, in my freshman year, I received my first ever B. My family flipped on me.
          
          Now..... last quarter, stress and everything got to me. So... instead I received Bs again, almost all of them 88 or 89s. My question: Is receiving the amount of Bs I have that bad compared to when I get all As everywhere else? I’ve tried okay? Just leave me alone, I want to be myself, I tried to measure myself to every expectation you’ve expected from me. What more could you want?? 
          
          I wish I was someone else

G0SHDIDDILYDARN

@SerenitySVA it wasn't a waste, and i can tell you are smarter than u  claim to be
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Krazykat179

@SerenitySVA Why do you assume you are not worth the effort and time? Not to mention, it is my time and effort to use how I see fit.  I don't mind, if I can help I can.  If I can't, I still tried.
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SirTuskz

@SerenitySVA  whatever is just a B not an F, but you shouldn't feel bad about it though, everything takes time, not everything is about grades.
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SerenitySVA

I just see everyone say “HAPPY HALLOWEEN!!” 
          
          And I’m just here, unable to do trick or treat because of my spinal syndrome. AND can’t eat candy recently.
          
          How sad is my life now-

Krazykat179

@SerenitySVA I'm sorry, hopefully it gets better. You could at least still watch scary movies or Halloween movies/specials.
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SerenitySVA

I mean same, I want to get into the spirit of Halloween but like life is kinda sucky now so. :/ Thxs tho for trying to make me feel better sis
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iLikeCHEESE22345

@SerenitySVA Oof I hope things get better. I'm just saying Happy Halloween because it's nice to get into the spirit of whatever holiday is happening
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