That whole book series made me mad so I gave up. I can't stand weak girls who allow people to pick on them and then she falls for him. I don't care that he has a mental illness. I have BPD too but I've never treated someone so horribly. Sorry, that series just triggers me and the author is not totally correct on her research. Take it from someone who has it and meets with a therapist and a shrink on a weekly/monthly basis.