Sillonia1
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hey, been a while!
as you can see, i have deleted the post about my (ex) boyfriend. lemme explain.
we started to date in april, and it was good for 3 months! we would stay up and text, HAPPY stuff, and he would always make sure i felt comfortable around him. july , i start to feel more uncomfortable; he would grab my thigh without asking (he used to ask), push me near his... yk..., all that sorta stuff.
so i have ths 'friend', we'll call her E, E was always so kind to me, but there was an issue with her, she liked my boyfriend. before we started dating, she openly admitted to liking him, but he rejected her. because she 'got over him' i was like "FINALLY WE CAN BE FRIENDS" but in the end, we liked eachother BLAH BLAH. anyway, one time when i got home, i wasnt texting him bc i was rlly uncomfortable around him, (that day he was weird) and so i just ignored the messages. well E went out and texted me for teh first time in AGES, so i respond. ALSO- while this happened, he put me through a lot of shit- so we would talk abt how hard life is, have he wants to die, all this stuff at like 3 in the morning EVERY night. we had exams around that time (mid year ones.) ANYWAYS- turns out that he went and asked her to 'test' me to see if i would respond to others and not him (ick). he then went out and messaged me being like "E just said u texted her, why not me" and stuff. ALSO- AGAIN- he would always ask my best friend, B, if i would respond to her and not him.
so this was one of the MANY things he would do, but the main thing he did, was complaining. at 3 in the fucking morning, i would wake up to a "hey... i feel kinda sad rn..." EVERY DAY! so i stopped talking to him. call me unempathetic or wtv, but i couldn't. my sister was going through an ED, my dad had just been spamming my texts after like 5 years, and my world was falling apart, and i had this dude complaining abt life? fuck no.
theres limited space-ask me questions if u want! ill explain the breakup there!
Sillonia1
@f_fairycatz_z thanks, and dw bc i dont feel bad at all, i have practically stated to him that he low-key was the problem LMAO
f_fairycatz_z
don’t even feel bad abt that bcs even if he is depressed and going through things it shouldn’t all be put on you and at 3AM EVERYDAY is insane! Also he has absolutely no right to touch you with out your consent. Hope you are feeling okay and keep that man and E out your life girl. :)
