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@Sillybilly12 No cuz what the actual fuck. That's terrible. I was scared of my mom saying it was a phase because a few months before i came out i just casually asked her her thoughts on the LGBTQ community and she said she supported them, said that for example if i went by they/them pronouns my mom would have to tell my sister "oh them at school" (LIKE NO? JUST USE THE NORMAL AND CORRECT GRAMMAR, "OH THEY'RE AT SCHOOL" NOT THAT HARD?) and I think she said something about a phase so when I came out in July (at a chick-fil-a out of all places </3) i literally told her it's not a phase and that it's me because it's not. I think she still thinks of it as a phase and I haven't once heard her try to call me by they/them pronouns nor ask me if I what clothes would make me more comfortable. (Earlier that year as well she was calling me wanting baggy clothes "a phase" because she assumed I wanted them because of insecurities. I didn't. I just like them and wanted them to make me seem more non-binary)