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Hi Debs! It's been a while!
I'm not sure if you remember me (EverlarkAlways223) but i've missed talking to you!
I hope you're doing well!
Sillyshygirl25
Sillyshygirl25
Good afternoon,
I hope everyone is doing well. Happy new year by the way.
As far as that I want to start writing again.
It can be anything. Let me know I know that you can’t DM on here but please once I post a new chapter to any book lease comment and let me know.
Remember eat, stay hydrated and lots of sleep.
If you’re having tough times trust me things will get better. Need help, get help either from a counselor or talk to someone you trust.
It’s 2025 and if you had a tough 2024, this is your year.
Take care
♥️Debs
Sillyshygirl25
I have Instagram now if anyone wants to follow me it’s dreamydebs98. I will be posting cooking pictures and random ones too. I’m still working with myself and dealing with a lot. Hope everyone is okay, I’m not going to be in the app maybe till next year.
Stay safe everyone
❤️Debs
RJMims
@Sillyshygirl25 Take your time. We're all here for you if you need any of us. Stay safe and take good care.
Sillyshygirl25
Im alive and single I broke up with my girlfriend on Friday cuz I could not take any more of the insults and the way she treated me with the disrespect. Today I’ll be picking up my things from her place and what’s worse then that is I had to break my heart and tell her that I don’t love her anymore. It’s crazy too she does not want anyone coming with me to pick up my things or else she will call the cops, I’ve stuck around for love but I ended up being tired taking care of the puppy, cooking and cleaning and the puppy would attack me and she did nothing to help. There was never compassion on her end. Lesson learned love is not everything is loyalty and respect too.
RJMims
@Sillyshygirl25 Take all the time you need to heal and rebuild your walls, I sincerely hope that you have the best life possible. Whenever you get mad, meditate and breathe as anger won't solve anything, be strong, be gentle. I am sorry for how you were treated but this isn't the end. Be safe and take good care of yourself.
Sillyshygirl25
I hate jinxing myself I’m going to talk to my therapist on Friday I don’t know if I’m happy or not. I love my girlfriend but she does not understand me nor understand how I’m feeling.
I’m a masc but I’m still a woman but to her I’m the man meaning I don’t get flowers and I should be the one doing all the hard work which is fine but then says I have to kill bugs for her which I have. She told me to choose either I’m a masc or a femme I told her over and over I’m a masc but that does not mean I’m trans. I’m a woman that’s towards my masculine side but I still love colors!!
She gets mad at me when I sleep and she wants to do the dirty after a long day of work and doing my two jobs I want to sleep and all she things about is that. She’s rough and I’ve been getting sensitive skin for some reason and she’s not respecting me when I say NO!
She kicks me out of the room when we fight but then tells me to go to her and ask her how do we fix this and when I did she does not care.
My therapy says that she might not know what love is. She’s rude and mean to me and I’m working hard. When I say how I feel it’s always a problem. All I want is to be loved and how I love myself now then before I would never treat myself this way and yet I’m still here by her side.
RJMims
@Sillyshygirl25 I know this might sound early to unconsiderate but if you find the time, talk to her and express your feelings to her and how you're feeling. I hope you get what you have been searching for in this life.
Dl_Shadz
Sweet pie, you have 888 views on your book named 'debs'
That's a number of GOD! Amazing, no?
Dl_Shadz
@Sillyshygirl25 People can change.. But trust the LORD, whatever he plans is for the best.. Thank you for tolerating all the things till now.. I do not know how you two are, but hearing from the surface, I got a thought that she might not be the one for you.. I am sorry if I am saying nonsense.. But the least you can do is let the lord handle it. I swear he will help if we truly have faith in him. And take care of yourself, no matter what the world says. I AM REALLY REALLY PROUD OF YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE.
Dl_Shadz
@Sillyshygirl25 Thank you, sweet pie! I wish you have a great time ahead. And keep that precious smile of yours alive~
Sillyshygirl25
I’m learning from my therapist to not become a people pleaser, it takes a lot of energy out of me and it makes my depression worse. My girlfriend got a tongue piercing and I’ve been taking care of her, cooking everyday with my heart all for her, I’ve been on top of things. I don’t realize that I’m doing the people pleasing until I feel tired and don’t want to go out nor eat and my depression hits. My therapist tells me that if I want to stay in bed all day then I should if I want to eat candy then go ahead and not restrict myself or overwork myself because she knows that I know my limits. Right now I’m alone in my car parked near a nice area where the sun is shining and just enjoying this time. My gf went out first leaving me alone at home even when I asked her where we were going to go but she wanted to go by herself. I felt like she was mad at me for something but I stopped myself and I said to myself “I am not the problem.” But I’m just tired now. Also recovering from a hangover yeah no fun.
Sillyshygirl25
New. book posted I hope everyone enjoys
Have a wonderful day/ night
Debs
Sillyshygirl25
New life update
https://www.wattpad.com/1442569434?utm_source=ios&utm_medium=link&utm_content=share_writing&wp_page=create_writer&wp_uname=Sillyshygirl25
ElyWrites5
Hello debs, I'm back not sure if you remember but it's me ciely. Can't open my past accounts:) missed you so much I hope you're doing well!! xxxx