My biggest ick has to be when people make dirty jokes about actual people. Look, I completely understand saying dirty things about a character and I’m not shaming anyone for that. However, you shouldn’t be making sexual jokes about my crush. He’s an actual person, and when I think of him, that is NOT what comes to mind. We’re both still young, I don’t even need to think about all that. So making jokes about kinks, bdsm, or just any sexual thing in general is not okay. I wouldn’t want people making those jokes about me, so don’t about other real people.
When it comes to friends and y’all like making jokes about each other like that is okay in my books. As long as everyone is okay with it and everything.