you know something that pisses me off...well a lot of things actually, but this is one that came from my ex best girlfriend. i makes me mad when someone comes in and they look depressed, they talk about depressing things and you can tell something is wrong. they make it impossible to not know something is wrong with them. yet when you try to talk to them about it they just shrug you off. now i understand that it's something that hurts and you might not want to talk about it, but if you don't want to talk about it, don't proclaim it to the world and not expect people to ask questions. talking is very important when it comes to dealing with crap.