Hey, you replied to my comment on the GroveltoHEA book. I can’t respond on there because she has me blocked but I wanted to answer your question.
I am not bothered by the forgiveness aspect because I feel as though forgiveness is more for your own peace of mind than your wrongdoers. The willingness to rekindle after being cheated is absolutely foolish. It does make the FL a doormat because the ML cheated after years of marriage due to stress. He could easily betray her again after facing another stressful situation. I can appreciate your opinion but I disagree that walking away is easier. Staying is always easier, it’s comfortable and convenient to stay, you don’t have to worry about finances and housing and ignorance truly is bliss. However, having that self respect to realise you deserve better is always going to be harder. It’ll be difficult to start anew and heal from the situation but in the long term will contribute to their growth.
