K, so I thought I was cis for most of the sixteen years I've been alive, then I started thinking maybe I was genderfluid a few months ago, and now...now I think I might be trans. I don't know for sure. I don't really get dysphoria the way I've heard/seen it described, or at least, not very often. But I really don't feel comfortable being female for the most part, I mean, I like wearing skirts and dresses and makeup on occasion. But for the most part, I'd rather be male. Being a guy just sounds..so much better in a way I can't really describe. It's not a "guys have it so much easier" thing. It's more like.."I don't think being female suits me" I guess. That's really the only way I can think of to describe it. I don't know. Anyway, if anyone has suggestions or advice for me on how to figure out this crazy mess that is known as "me", I'd be grateful for the help. For now, I'm going to be trying out he/him pronouns, if y'all don't mind helping out with that, and you can just call me Jess/Jesse.