@SnowMarisvega
I am sincerely sorry to learn this! Your words sound a little ambiguous, so I will say - if he is sick and hard times are ahead - be strong, be his support, have faith, even if there is no hope! When the end is announced, a person can still pray - for there to be no pain, for the person dear to him not to lose consciousness, for you to have time to say and do things together that you could not do until now. Talk about the future - what is in his dreams for you. If the end has come - I know it is hard, I know that everyone tells you to be strong, but first give free rein to your feelings - cry out your grief, allow yourself to be weak, because there are moments in life when, in order to get up and move forward, you need to surrender to your pain. Give yourself time, but do not forget that every parent wants their child to be well, to be healthy, to succeed and to be able to stand firmly on their feet. Think about your father's favorite things, about the moments together, about which ones he was happiest in! If you can - try to repeat them alone or accompanied by a dear person (brother, sister, mother, uncle or beloved), to pay tribute and seal the precious memories in your heart! Then know that he will always be by your side - if you want, believe that he is watching you from heaven, if you want - that he lives in you, through you, but this thought will help you to be stronger, to overcome difficulties, to achieve future successes. And if someone tells you that time heals, that you will forget the pain and sadness - do not believe them! I can tell you from experience - with time you just get used to the pain, the emptiness, the silence - you just get used to it, you don't forget! Courage and keep your head up!
