You know what I find annoying? Writers who guilt their readers just because they don't have a backbone to handle criticism or are too sensitive when people give their opinions on one of the character's bad choices. You put your work on the internet, where people are opinionated and have the option to give feedback. It's one thing to tell people to tone things down if it get toxic, but it's a whole other story if you're just guilting your readers and gaslighting them for having an opinion opposed to yours.