SomethingWithGhosts

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can't believe i'm on the verge of tears because of As It Was
          	fucking As It Was???
          	you've got mitski's whole discography at your fingertips and THIS makes you cry??
          	why

SomethingWithGhosts

what has life become
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AngstIslLifeLol

Honestly same but different song
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little_miss_ordinary

hello fellow AroAce! How are you doing? Hope you're having a great day!

little_miss_ordinary

@ SomethingWithGhosts i also love The Owl House! I'm really hyped for season 3
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SomethingWithGhosts

@little_miss_ordinary
            yess! i haven't watched all of it, because i'm watching it with my friends but it's So Good!
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little_miss_ordinary

@ SomethingWithGhosts  at least I'm not the only one
            
            Anyways, you are a The Owl House fan, right?
            
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SylverStyx

Sorry if this comes across as “trying to ride off popularity” but if any of y’all are interested in an ace self discovery/coming of age/a bit of romance novel, I’ve finally started posting one that I’ve been working on since about the Covid shutdown. So far only a few close friends have read it, but I’d love for others to hear/see my story as well. Also, I absolutely adore this channel so make sure to give it all your love and support! Thanks my lovelies and I hope to see you on the other side <3

SomethingWithGhosts

this message may be offensive
can't believe i'm on the verge of tears because of As It Was
          fucking As It Was???
          you've got mitski's whole discography at your fingertips and THIS makes you cry??
          why

SomethingWithGhosts

what has life become
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AngstIslLifeLol

Honestly same but different song
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Birdie1047

I have a rant for the Ace Aliance. So I tried to tell my parents that I was asexual. My dad told me I was too young to know. My mom said it's better to be without labels. I'm pretty sure they forgot so should I keep it a secret or should I tell them?

some_user_some_place

@Birdie1047 You're welcome! I wish it goes well for you and your family =)
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Birdie1047

Thank you. This really makes me feel better
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some_user_some_place

@Birdie1047 I think you should not bring it up again, if you are sure that they understood what it means and that was their response. This situation is pretty similar to what happened to me and I decided to show them that I am seurious about this from other thing. For example I started showing my mom that my friends (and people surrounding me in general) were accepting of me and that society is changing. Also made sure that she knew that I know what is a good moment it good people to talk about this things and who wasn't. I took that approach to it because I believe that my mother's concern was that other people might not be accepting and that I could lose opportunities in life with this label. Also she does believe that it is a phase and I'll grow out of it, but I do believe sexuality is fluid and so I preferred not to engage in that discussion. Although I made sure that she knew that I understood that people do change and I am not trapped to any labels. And overall, after some time she is more accepting and way less worried over this subject. Now I am slowly starting to bring up subjects like the ace flag and little things related to the sexuality but not about to me in hopes that these little conversations will grow with time into healthy discussions about the sexuality that so involve me. I think you could try this approach, but do consider how your family reacts to it all and stop if it starts to be confrontational. Hope I helped :)
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