Hi guys my debut is coming in July 17 and I don't know what I'm going to do I'm stress because my other relatives don't want me to celebrate it and I'm upset and disappointed my grandpa want me to have a party he is going to the designer and make me a gown I want purple but my grandma don't want it she said that the neighbors say to her that the purple color of gown is a bad luck I want to cry but I can't I want my debut to be purple theme they don't want it guys I want a favor please suggest something that can lighten my feelings what color and design of invitation card and what color of gown if not purple please