Storm-The-Icewings
Hey guys I was wondering if I could get some advice on this so please respond or something lol
Anyways basically I like this guy in my 1st and second period, but we don't really talk a lot because we're in different friend groups. He and I keep making like one second eye contact in class and at lunch so I kind of think he might like me back, but I'm questioning myself. Like what if he doesn't and I'm just looking at him for no reason
I'm also scared of what other people would think if I did start dating him like they would judge me but I don't want to abandon my friends either because at my school if your dating you usually walk around at lunch but I like eating lunch with my friends.
And than there's the fact that my last relationship was really toxic and it scared me because it's hard to put in that commitment, but I'm really scared because I feel like it might go the same way as my last relationship and I care about my reputation at my school so what If I get upset over something and than everyone knows.
I guess I'm just kind of scared to be in a relationship again and I don't really know how to fix that
I'm just kind of freaking out so some advice would be great heh <3
Dang0heart254
@Storm-The-Icewings ofc ofc, it’s np Just prioritize your comfort over anything else If you have any doubts, better safe than sorry Also communication is a huge one, in the event you do start dating him Be honest and upfront and expect the same from him Not to say that you need to show him all ur text convos all the time but that if you act secretive then that creates tension. Same on his end
Dang0heart254
@Storm-The-Icewings if you’re scared, don’t force it. Love and attraction aren’t necessities, first of all Second of all, my relationship with my ex failed for a variety of reasons, but one of the big ones was that we didn’t spend a lot of time together. We couldn’t. We had no classes together and only saw each other for an hour on the bus home. So something I would say is that you need to find ways to spend more time together either during school or outside of it before you go jumping into this Also, does his friend group make you comfy? If you were to date, you need to feel comfortable with his friends. If they don’t make you feel comfy, he’s not a good match for you. This isn’t smth you should force either Does he have a reputation when it comes to dating? Is it good? Bad? How mature is he? Will you end up having to babysit him? You may not know the answers to all these questions yet and that’s ok. If you don’t, it’s fine. We all make dating mistakes at least once And if my biggest one is that you just go for it. Hint that you’re into him, spend some time together (not dating) to see if it’s really legit, and the chances of him saying yes and you not being rejected go up. And if he does reject you, that’s ok too because you were still honest and upfront and now you have an answer
