@Blackshadowgirl2
Totally related to a lot of things, but when I see these articles saying how to identify a narcissist and a manipulator, and therefore how to counter them, it's not a good thing (in my opinion) that I, and when I read them outloud my mom, both go "Ohhh yeah, who do we know who does that? (sarcastic)". My dad. Adoptive dad, technically, never have I been so glad that I don't share blood with him.
I mean, I've come to realize in the past few years how much mom really put up with while living with him. She did 99% of the work around the house before I was old enough to help out, and then I helped out a lot too, but she still did the majority of the work. Dad usually sat around and watched TV or played stuff on the computer, or looked at...questionable content (for a father of a young girl ((or boy, but that's not relevant right now ) while we were both outside. I feel like it's sad that the only time I saw him clean ANYTHING, and I'm not exaggerating here, is when he took the vacuum cleaner out to the old car a day before he walked out. That is literally the only time I saw him clean. I was like seven or eight and never saw him vacuum anything, never seen him clean anything.
The thoughts you get when you just wake up, honestly.