You don't have to change to make a guy like you. I learned the hard way. I liked this guy once upon a time. I went through all of this trouble to make myself different so that he would like me back, and he ended up being a jerk. Look, no one can change. But there will be a guy who will like you just the way you are. And those are the kind of guys you wanna stick with. Not the ones who want you to change.