GUYS GUYS GUYS I NEED HELP
So I’m going to come out to my family tomorrow (June first, the first day of pride!!) I need your help on how to do it. (Keep in mind I live in Japan, so make sure if you answer, it’s before night if June first in Japan)
So I’ve already come out as bi- trans to my sister and friends, but that’s it. My plan was to make my cake normal, but in the inside, it’s colorful. One layer would be pink, blue, and the normal yellow cake color (because you can’t dye cake white), and the second layer would be dyed pink, purple, and blue. It would look normal on the outside, but when you cut it, it’s super gay.
It’s (hopefully) gonna go like this:
Mom: *cuts cake*
Family: wOw ThAtS vErY cOlOrFuL
My sis: that’s pretty gay
Me: well that makes sense, considering it’s me
My fam: wHAT-
Me: *explains how gay I am*
But here’s the thing: I don’t know how to explain how gay I am
So I know my fam is not homophobic, I know that for a fact (my mom watches queer eye and our neighbors are literally two gay married men) so I know I don’t have to worry about them not accepting me, I just dont know what to say.
I don’t know what to actually say to explain my sexuality, and what will happen with that. (Also even if I’ve got it in my head, I know I will get nervous and just stutter and blab before I get to the point)
So please, if you’ve come out to your parents, help me on what to actually say when doing it. I know not a lot of people will see this, considering I don’t have a lot of followers, but if you do see it, please help me!! If you can’t help, or don’t know how, then copy and paste it and see if your followers have any help. (You can also put it in your tumblr if you have one)
I know that this is not a lot of time to like do anything, but PLEASE if u can, help me!!Thank you all for being so supportive and helpful!!