Sugarcandy6

Life Update! 
          	
          	So things have been hard...my sister got married so my mom has been going crazy finding a groom for me and it's hard.... because these arranged marriage set ups are killing me. 
          	
          	Men who are earning virtually nothing reject me saying I'm ugly, I'm short, I'm too fat, I'm too much educated, I earn too little. 
          	
          	I'm tired y'all. My self worth is being chipped away bit by bit. I think there'll be nothing left of me anymore the longer it goes on. 
          	
          	I don't know what I am anymore. 
          	
          	And even if I find someone...I think I have to compromise a lot. Everyone is pushing me to get married to anyone, just so I could get the status symbol and be done with it. That I shouldn't factor in money or attractiveness or chemistry, not even love. 
          	
          	   Which is a load of hypocrisy! No one tells these men that. No one.
          	
          	But I have to compromise until I am nothing. I have to leave my home, my family, my friends, my job...as if that isn't enough, I have to leave every bit of self-respect I have too. 
          	
          	    I am done y'all.

Sowmaa1

@Sugarcandy6 The situation is tough but keep hope. Everything will work out eventually for good. Keeping you in prayers.
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GMalathi

@Sugarcandy6 this shall too pass dear. Don't lose Hope
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whity123456

@Sugarcandy6 I am in the same situation. Especially I am the elder one, too tall too fat less salary so much. It's not only from groom side, sometimes even parents say too. It's like shifting the responsibility to other one, so that they can relieve from their own responsibility. I am so done with all too
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Sugarcandy6

Life Update! 
          
          So things have been hard...my sister got married so my mom has been going crazy finding a groom for me and it's hard.... because these arranged marriage set ups are killing me. 
          
          Men who are earning virtually nothing reject me saying I'm ugly, I'm short, I'm too fat, I'm too much educated, I earn too little. 
          
          I'm tired y'all. My self worth is being chipped away bit by bit. I think there'll be nothing left of me anymore the longer it goes on. 
          
          I don't know what I am anymore. 
          
          And even if I find someone...I think I have to compromise a lot. Everyone is pushing me to get married to anyone, just so I could get the status symbol and be done with it. That I shouldn't factor in money or attractiveness or chemistry, not even love. 
          
             Which is a load of hypocrisy! No one tells these men that. No one.
          
          But I have to compromise until I am nothing. I have to leave my home, my family, my friends, my job...as if that isn't enough, I have to leave every bit of self-respect I have too. 
          
              I am done y'all.

Sowmaa1

@Sugarcandy6 The situation is tough but keep hope. Everything will work out eventually for good. Keeping you in prayers.
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GMalathi

@Sugarcandy6 this shall too pass dear. Don't lose Hope
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whity123456

@Sugarcandy6 I am in the same situation. Especially I am the elder one, too tall too fat less salary so much. It's not only from groom side, sometimes even parents say too. It's like shifting the responsibility to other one, so that they can relieve from their own responsibility. I am so done with all too
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Sugarcandy6

Well wattpad is acting weird, I had published the new chapter last night but notifs went today morning only. 
          
          Anyways, how are y'all? How is diwali going for you? 
          
          https://www.wattpad.com/story/374851135

sidneetian_unique

@Sugarcandy6 yesterday there was a global outage everywhere so most of the web services were down including wattpad plus wattpad has been tardy with its notifications since the start of 2025. Anyways it’s good to see you back dear author. ❤️
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