Sunnjakeyyy
Hi, Everyone. Sorry, college life have been pretty hard lately and I don't have much time to do anything except my academic works and responsibilities.
So, hi? How are y'all? I hope y'all are doing fine. Goodluck to those who's getting ready for their first year in college.
In all honesty, I'm here to vent. I rejected a person who's I've been with for almost 3 months now, he started pursuing me a month ago and to tell y'all honestly I've already fell for him. I'm a guy too btw.
But, my friends doesn't like him, like at all due to his past. His past wasn't good, he only date for body and satisfaction but he told me that he's changing for the better.
I didn't trust him. I still want to continue the connection but my friend pressured me to stop it before I fall deeply for him. I'm still longing for his presence, I still want him near me. But, I couldn't do anything cause I'm the one who cut ties with him, which made me feel bad up till now.
KimSunoo7225
@Sunnjakeyyy Hi. I am doing well, hoping for you to be well too. Also never knew you were a guy!!! I mean you still are!! It really surprised me but I think I like it. BTW listen to your friends advice because when you like someone you can't see the bad about them what others can see because you are attached to them and don't want to let them go. I have a sister like this and BOY it is hard to convince her what's the bad I can clearly see in a boy but she can't see. So think because doing anything always asks for advice from multiple people and then decides and remember nobody is jealous of you if multiple people say the same thing about leaving that boy!!!
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Anjali98meow01
@Sunnjakeyyy Hi, I hope you are doing well with your academics and college....it can be hard sometimes so take rest and take care ❤️ I have an experience of 3 and half years of dating a guy who was a Playboy....we broke up tho I did it cuz he didn't put effort and it felt like I was doing all the work for him..... A relationship is really hard to maintain but he was changing for me, he was leaving all bad habits cuz I gave him a chance to prove himself but in the process where he was improving himself....I got drained it was not easy so I chose myself and we broke up on good terms....he was my first and I haven't date or ig I won't date anymore.... I shared this so to tell you to listen to your heart always.... My one wasn't good that doesn't mean everyones will be bad too....if you really think he is worth your Love u can give him a chance but always keep urself first not him never so that he can't hurt you..... choose yourself always.... Take care
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kimmysvnoo
@Sunnjakeyyy you did great with your responsibilities as college student! honestly, i suggest you to follow your heart. if you feel hesitate, then it's your heart and mind signaling to you to not persue that person. it might hurt at first or feel kinda empty while missing him, but try to look at the small details "why" you didn't trust him. find the reason, because sometimes we just deny the truth, but hearts and mind, they keep the memories! <3
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