SureLads

Oh yeah, so one of her main issues with him was the fact he never put in enough effort. So whats been happening is that he actually replies to her messages and messages in the gc first. The bit abt that that bothered me, is that he doesnt apply the same tjought into me. Like ik i dont need as much maintenance as her, but i still would like him to reach out occasionally instead of it always being my job.

SureLads

Ive told him this before, but apparently it only matters when the friendship basically ends
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SureLads

Oh yeah, so one of her main issues with him was the fact he never put in enough effort. So whats been happening is that he actually replies to her messages and messages in the gc first. The bit abt that that bothered me, is that he doesnt apply the same tjought into me. Like ik i dont need as much maintenance as her, but i still would like him to reach out occasionally instead of it always being my job.

SureLads

Ive told him this before, but apparently it only matters when the friendship basically ends
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Okay so they sorted their friendship, its been like a week or two i think. But now we're a functional trio again (i think, its late i canny remember).

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There was also smth so attractive abt him walking around in shorts and slider around the campsite
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Also! He wore a fleece quarter zip and he looked so fit im not even kidding. I think asking him to wear ot more often as we go into a heatwave would be a bit too obvious
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Anyways, the way im here is to tell you abt my crush on him. Bc im a fat chud, i couldn't keep up with them with the massive bag we had to wear. So we linked our arms together so that i wouldn't be left behind. 1, that is so sweet. 2, i had the BIGGEST urge ever to rest my head on his shoulder as we walked, i didnt bc it wouldve been super awkward, but i very seriously considered it
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Forgot to mention that the guy i have a crush on has a kink around stomachs, and was being proper creepy towards me and like 4 other girls i know. He would ask for pictures and audio recordings, and if you said no, he would pester you for them for like a week

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This all occurred at the start of this month, but i think, hopefully, bff and he have sorted out their friendship bc neither of them wanted it to end. So school may not be so boring and sad
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So then that puts a strain on their friendship bc what else do you expect to happen. So tgen the next few weeks are super awkward bc he isnt talking to like any of us in the group when bff is around. Then we (me and bff) tell some of the group what went down and that creeps ppl out a bit
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Then she told me that he had done it to her aswell, DESPITE HIM KNOWING SHE HAS A BF THATS ONE OF HIS BEST FRIENDS. So then bff decides to confront him in dms abt it for like 1.5 hrs in the middle of a maccies
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Okay but idk if i should tell him how i feel bc last time i did, nowt really changed. Like hes more engaged when talking to a random girl in our school year that me, even tho he says im one of his closest friends. This isnt even me being a jealous bitch for once, its more like frustration at myself for feeling so strongly towards him when he doesnt take the time out of his day to be a bit enthusiastic when replying to my dms.

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How would i even begin to tell him anyway??? 
            "Oh hey i feel like you dont actually care to take to me when i want to, and you only do when its on your own terms"
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Okay so my last crush died in early December, but the problem now is that idk if i have a crush on a new guy or not. The thing is that i only ever really feel it every couple days, unlike my last crush that was a constant thing.

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Ik nobody reads these but i needed to get it off my chest in someway
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Its really bothering me and idk what to do abt it bc hes part of my real close inner circle
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And ik the last guy didnt like me back, but i cant tell if new guy does or not. Like when he pays attention to me its strong and attentive, but sometimes he just ignores me for days at a time.
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