I do agree with Scarlet on the entire 'your choice on leaving' bit.
Don't let society (especially the internet) push and shove you around to get you to do what they want. This was an innocent misunderstanding. I think that people aren't communicating in the best way, leaving people confused and upset.
I'm pretty sure this is all just a miscommunication, ValerieTheWolfy, but if you wanna know I really do want you to stay :)