@ffly08 it depends on many factors. In similar situations when therapy is over they usually go separate ways. When there’s cheating alone the chance of reconciliation is about 25%, and when there’s cheating and trauma, emotional or physical or both, the rate is even lower, about 10%. When they decide to stay together is because of other more practical reasons, mostly regarding financial matters or because they have children. It’s not for me to tell them to stay together or not, except where staying together could amount to real danger for one’s health. Anyway usually the cheated partner decides not to reconcile, and I agree with this. Too often when they accept cheating, abuse, neglect and decide to stay anyway is because of emotional dependency.
