TW// f@+ shaming, comparing, parents, swearing, mentions of st@rving, mentions of black outs, being called a m1stake
(A bit of a v3nt and anger moments, so sorry)
4 things that are really hurtful to hear from parents;
3. "You were a mistake"
Don't EVER say that. Even if the kid asked you if they were planned or not, don't. F××king. Say. That.
It can really make them sad and hurted, f××k, they might feel like they ARE a mistake and think it's better if they leave.
2. "Why are you so f@+?"
.... It's really hurtful, personally, I have been called f@+ by family a lot. F××k! My younger sister! She's a kid! 6 years younger than me!!
Anyways, it can really damage them.. They'll st@rve themselves so they can be skinny, and f××k! They'll pass out at F××KING BURLINGTON BECAUSE THEY DIDN'T EAT FOR SO LONG!
So please.
3. "Why can't you be like [another kid's/sibling name name]?"
This hurts deeply. It feels like you never do anything right, you feel like a mistake and that your parents would rather have that kid as a replacement for you.
4. "You aren't female/male enough."
No sh!t. No one has to go by the gender stereotypes.
I hate that parents actually force their kids to be stereotypical. The poor kids-