That-Enby-Mess

So I’m in Tesco’s and my mum just asked why I’m not walking normally and now I’ve forgotten how to walk like  h o w  d o  i  w a l k ? ?

That-Enby-Mess

1. You are human.
          2. You are reading this.
          3. You can't say the letter "P" without separating your lips.
          4. You just attempted to do it.
          6. You are laughing at yourself.
          7. You have a smile on your face, and you skipped 5.
          8. You just checked to see if there is a 5.
          9. You're laughing at this because you're ridiculous. 
          10. You are going to repost this (you don’t have to if you don’t want to)

That-Enby-Mess

Sameeee, you got me btw, I definitely checked for number 5 
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That-Enby-Mess

Happy Asexual Awareness Week!! I myself am Aro/Ace so if you ever feel invalid or want to rant, I’m here, queer and can give you as many sarcastic comments as you need!! 

Atlas_2

@DarkPhoenixShipper Oh my god fellow ace person!!!!
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Ace_Magpie

@DarkPhoenixShipper it’s already that week!? Awesome!!!!
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Ravenclaw_amity

Hey, how are you today?
          
          Did you sleep for more than 6 hours?
          Have you had at least one full meal?
          Have you had at least a glass of water?
          How are you mentally?
          Do you want to talk?
          
          Don’t let trump outlive you.

That-Enby-Mess

@Ravenclaw_amity
            Well I slept for 5 1/2 hours (more than normal cos I’m sick rn)
            I’m sick, so... one full meal, threw it up then had like 5 snacks
            Had one glass of orange juice and half a cup of water
            No fùcking clue, tbh, I haven’t tried figuring out that shít
            Not really, I’m debating just writing a rant book since no one reads those
            
            Trump is the ultimate bîtchy Karen, I don’t even live in America and I despise him
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Ravenclaw_amity

Yep! I wanna make sure you’re doing ok, and even if I had sent it to the “wrong person” I’d still wanna know if you’re ok
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TheInsaneSpacePanda

Okay, so I have a question
          I am Ace, but not Aro
          I want to write an Ace/Aro character, but I want to get it right
          Okay, so for me, I get really uncomfortable when people even talk about sex, so is it the same for Aro? Do you still enjoy romantic stories? Other people have described being Aro as not understanding romantic feelings, which I understand, I feel the same way as an Ace. Do you still like to read romantic novels, or watch love story movies?
          Not trying to offend, just tryna understand so I can write a character correctly.

That-Enby-Mess

@TheInsaneSpacePanda XD
            That’d be great if you sent me the parts where you talk about the character, there really isn’t enough representation for aro/ace people in books and movies. I’m glad I could help! Good luck with the story 
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TheInsaneSpacePanda

@DarkPhoenixShipper oops lol
            I screenshot (so I really don’t know the paste tense term for this, the first thing that came to mind was screenshat XD) this, and I’ll use it whenever I actually write the character. Thanks, this really did help. I totally understand about pshe lmao
            Again, thank you
            I just wanted to make sure I got it right XD
            Also, I probably won’t be writing the actual story here, I mostly write on paper
            But I could send you the part where I actually talk about the character if you want
            That is, if I actually ever get around to it XD
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That-Enby-Mess

@TheInsaneSpacePanda I hope I can help! So obviously it isn’t the same for everyone, I’m just speaking from my experience.
            I kinda understand the theory/science behind romantic/sexual feelings, but whenever I see them irl I don’t really understand how or why people feel like that. Whenever people talk about romance, relationships and sex I get really uncomfortable and feel left out/like something is wrong with me (so I get super uncomfortable in pshe). I do still read shipping stories and watch romantic movies, some including smut, and do enjoy them, despite not understanding the characters’ emotions.
            If you do write an aro/ace character, I’d recommend writing them as supportive of those in romantic relationships, but clearly uncomfortable with pda. That way you can have character development of them gradually accepting themselves (which can be really hard for aro/ace people cos we feel broken/like there’s something wrong with us) and getting used to their friends’ relationships and feeling more comfortable around pda. You could also have them be slightly oblivious to those around them who are pining/crushing on others (which could be funny).
            If you want, once you’ve written each chapter, you could send it to me to proof read it. That way I can check that there behaviour/actions/speech makes sense, plus I can check spelling/grammar for you.
            If you do, yay!! Can’t wait to see what you write and I’m glad I can help!! If not, I’ll still read you’re story and I hope this helped!! Good luck either way 
            
            I had to type this twice cos I accidentally deleted it! 
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