Hey so apparently this needs to be said because a lot of fic writing platforms and social medias have this problem:
Don’t fetishize gay men. It isn’t quirky. You’re just creepy and weird.
Don’t call trans men “uwu soft bois/pretty bois” unless they are comfortable with it. They are MEN. Treat them the way you would treat cis men.
(Also while we’re on the topic; don’t fetishize lesbians either. Also also, aces, and aros and anyone on that spectrum are all a part of the community.)
Sorry for the seriousness, but it needs to be said