And now for another completely irregularly scheduled PSA by yours truly.
Yall, I dont know about the rest of you, but I'm getting tired of disingenuous people. I'm tired of people thinking that lying and sparing your feelings is better than being honest. So many people nowadays don't seem to realize that by lying and pretending to care more than they clearly do is better for you, or pretending it is.
The world we live in is already full of so much hate and problems, why make it worse? There's never a good reason to spare someone's feelings, yall. Be honest with them. By trying to spare their feelings, your creating a false sense of confidence in them and ripping it away when they inevitably learn the truth.
This is especially prevalent in relationships, as people will lie to you and tell you the things they think you want to hear, instead of being honest with you and their feelings. The problems this creates in relationships only hurt the person more in the end. If you lie about how you feel then you won't truly be happy with that person, and they'll be able to sense that, maybe not right away but it becomes obvious over time, which can make the person who's feelings you were trying to spare overthink and feel worse about themselves.
At the end of the day, it's always better to be honest. So don't try to spare other people's feelings, and don't let other people try to spare yours. Push for honesty, and always be honest. It may hurt for a time, but it will hurt way less than if those feelings were lied about for a long time.
Be the change, yall, cause we can't keep going on like this.
Have an amazing day, everyone!!