My ex and I are friends. We’ve dated twice and have known each other for over a decade now. We don’t talk but maybe twice or three times a month, but I feel like my girlfriend gets a bit upset when we tweet each other. She has nothing to worry about and she knows this, but she knows I’m Pan with a male preference and sometimes I think she’s scared I’d leave her for a guy. It’s not that I don’t want to tell her I talk to him, it’s just I don’t bother because I don’t see it as important conversation. It’s just, I can tell she does see it that way every time I casually mention it. Is it wrong that it bothers me that it bothers her? It shouldn’t be wrong because I know what she’s feeling... but I’m not that type. Idk