You don't have to change. Be who you are. Be who you want. They don't make up who you are. You are the last of You. If they change who you are they are doing much more then that. They can hurt you on the outside it may hurt but it will go away. But on the inside is where it really hurts. That is what makes you who you are and me, me. I have put up walls and so have you. My walls have been torn down, went up in flames and destroyed without mercy. But each time it gets rebuilt stronger. Knowing how to defend itself and me learning to defend others. So don't be harsh on yourself because even after the worst of storms there will always be a rainbow at the end.